Guys Are Unserious

I was starting to get pretty into the dating apps and had gradually been lowering the age of men I wanted to see.  I matched with Finance Bro and we immediately hit it off.  He was in grad school for his MBA while working part-time.  Our schedules were tough, but after a few cancellations and lots of chats, we met for coffee. 

We had been on Snap for awhile and I was not used to having such dirty chats before meeting someone.  I also wasn’t sure how to act when I’d seen this man jacking off and cumming.  There just wasn’t a lot of mystery, but we hadn’t actually talked until we had our coffee date. 

The date went great.  We immediately had chemistry, and both were wishing we had more time since we were fitting this into a mid-Friday morning. 

After the date, we were constantly snapping each other and I had my first very naughty chats with pictures and videos.  It was so incredibly hot and it filled the void of having a regular partner in my bed.  He was available most evenings for a bit of chat and to provide some good content for me to enjoy.  The more we talked, the more I wanted to actually see him.

After weeks of back and forth, he told me he was too stressed to see me because he was too stressed to even cum when he was masturbating.  Um, okay.  So, I said, how about winter break?  It was only a few weeks away and I knew that it was school that was stressing him out.  He quickly agreed and I said no pressure until he was on break.

After a few more weeks of intense sexual tension on Snap, it was past the holidays and I was ready to finally spend some quality time with this man.  So, we planned for a day and I waited… and waited… and waited.  The day came, and he had stopped responding to me.  I never heard from him again. 

After a week I deleted him from Snap.  My time is much too valuable for that kind of nonsense.  If he wanted to, he would.  He clearly did not and after talking a big game, I have to assume he was afraid he wouldn’t be able to perform.  I was bummed to let my Snap partner go, but there would be plenty more of those down the road.